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[Kuztimrodder]

Originally Posted by toolfan91

If there is one guy on DIYMA who gives out great life/dating advice, it would be this man right here.

Tim helped me out a TON when I was going through my real bad breakup with a gf of nearly 2 years. Much thanks goes out to Tim

WOW! Thanks man, I never thought it helped all that much. You are welcome bro, anytime.

My deal is that I did it in reverse. I married the girl I was dating at 17(got married at 19). After 12 years with her and learning to truly realize things as they are and could be with anyone, I started listening to the part inside that most ignore. The hard things to realize, face, confront, deal with. At age 30 I began to start fresh with all that life experience. All the things I was told at a young age by my elders began to be remembered as the truth. Now I use the lessons for better or worse. Sometimes thinking you know can be a bad thing but at the same time you are protecting your emotions. It's quite hard to sum up in words but the learning never ends. For some reason it's harder to express in a public forum. One on one is more personal and open. I'm no Dr. Phil but I tell it from the heart and only if I know for sure it's been proven. The worst advice is untested advice. As far as internet experience, Myspace has been the greatest thing to happen to me. My friends comments to my blogs are a testimonial to who I want to be as a friend. That Tim never would've surfaced completely had it not been for Myspace and other sites.

Kenny, I think Durwood sums it up best so far.