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So I'm at this house party last weekend and i meet this cute girl. We hit it off and we're both hella flirty. A few hours later we're making out and cuddling outside and this dude walks up. She gets up. Gives him a big hug and romantic kiss and says "ill see you at home." And then sits back down with me.

And im fucking dumbstruck at this point. Like what the actual fuck just happened. And shes just like, oh he's my bf but we're in an open relationship......

And its been a little bit of a mindfuck for me the last day or two.

So what all are your guys experience or opinions of open relationships?

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All right, now pay attention. First of all, Jscoyce2, you never let on how much you like a girl. Two, you always call the shots. 'Kiss me. You won't regret it.' Now three, act like wherever you are, that's the place to be. 'Isn't this great?' Four, when ordering food, you find out what she wants, then order for the both of ya. It's a classy move. 'Now, the lady will have the linguini and white clam sauce, and a Coke with no ice.' And five, now this is the most important, Jscoyne2, When it comes down to making out, whenever possible, put on side one of Led Zeppelin IV
 

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Hmmmm...

What are you wanting to happen?

In most open relationship cases I’ve encountered, the participating individuals need ‘alone/single’ time before even attempting a more traditional ‘closed’ relationship.

Then you’ll have to try and figure out how they landed into the open relationship status. Was it her idea or the BF? My opinion is whoever’s idea it initially was has a lower chance of leaving the open relationship.

Lastly, if your fine with the whole situation just remember open doesn’t mean you, her, and BF. She hooked up comfortably with you within a couple hours of meeting you. Which suggests she may do this regularly with who knows how many other people. All I’ll say is make sure your staying healthy.
 

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My ex-gf is in an open relationship, although I think it would be more accurate to call them swingers or wife-swappers. Basically, her husband was cool w/ her having sex w/ some guys, but w/ other guys he was only cool w/ it if he got to bang the other guy's wife/gf. So it's like semi-open, semi-swapping.

Anyway, as she explained it to me, at least some of the normal jealousies still exist, and it's difficult to make sure that every1 is on the same page when it comes to what the limits are.

And of course, make sure u don't catch feelings for this girl, becuz she will never be yours.
 

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Who needs a girl when you have car audio? It may still be just as expensive but at least you only have to hear what you want to. The car stereo doesn’t complain either, it just wants to be fired up once and awhile
 

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Who needs a girl when you have car audio? It may still be just as expensive but at least you only have to hear what you want to. The car stereo doesn’t complain either, it just wants to be fired up once and awhile
The problem is, that it does blow sometimes, but not in a good way :laugh:
 

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Who needs a girl when you have car audio? It may still be just as expensive but at least you only have to hear what you want to. The car stereo doesn’t complain either, it just wants to be fired up once and awhile
The problem is, that it does blow sometimes, but not in a good way <img src="http://www.diymobileaudio.com/forum/images/smilies/laugh.gif" border="0" alt="" title="Laugh" class="inlineimg" />
Haha! Well there is this one idea on the internet... it requires a sub with an above average xmax and a fleshlight ?
 

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So I don't actually have any interest in this girl. Didn't bother to get her number ot anything. Was just like nahhh.

Just an interesting story i thought id share

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There are subreddits for this sort of thing. It's a new world out there...
 

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Humans are weird creatures! I had a similar thing happen when I was in my early 20s. I had been jackhammering this beautiful 35 to 40 year old woman that would drop her shorts at just about anytime that I called.

She had 2 kids about 10 years old and I assumed that she was a single or divorced and that is why she never wanted to go anywhere. Which was perfect for a broke college kid!

After a month or so, she asked me if she could film. Of course, I said yes. I just assumed that she was wanting something to watch if or when I "broke up" with her. So after the 3rd time of filming, I told her that she didn't have to worry about filming anymore because I was happy with our situation.

Obviously in one of my drunken states I missed a conference meeting or something. Because in our next meeting, she asked me if it was OK if her husband watched from in the room. He had been either in the other room or filming at least some of the times. He a medical doctor and was about 45 to 50 years old. He had testicle cancer and I guess it turned him (or them) on.
 
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