An excellent point that I've already explained to her. She claims that it won't be an issue becuz the older kids don't need her as much and they can carpool to their various activities. I told her that the kids will still need her for years to come and made a lot of the same points u did about the poor prospects for kids from large families. She wasn't convinced and just blew it off. Like I said, from a logical standpoint, there isn't even a debate. But maybe I can restate these ideas with a more emotional appeal.Another prospective that she needs to consider is the development of the first three kids and the options that close down for them due to to another sibling .
What else do u want to know? I can tell u that she's a great mom. She really enjoys it and I can understand why she wants another kid... but that still doesn't mean it's the right decision.This is one of those times I have to say.. I can't say anything without more data.